Parenthood and Family

May
14
A young girl on a leather chair playing with a coaster.

🛰️ You Don’t Need Any Toys.

“I don’t even know why I even buy you any toys, you don’t need ’em,” my dad said, watching me turn a coaster into a spaceship, fly…
Jan
29
Bootleg Golden Books, My Small PEZ Addiction & A Tiny Rant About AI “Art.”

Bootleg Golden Books, My Small PEZ Addiction & A Tiny Rant About AI “Art.”

These are my daughter’s bath toys. Their names, according to her, from left to right: Bacca, Yanta, Baba, Papa, Dadaluaaa, Buddy. I had posted this picture on my…
Dec
07
Apples.

Two Davids & My Dad’s Bootleg VHS Collection

I’m working on an essay that is a bit of a love letter to a friend-of-a-friend and my firstborn at the same time. I know all the things…
Jul
21
Strawberries Only

Strawberries Only

🍓 This is the summer where I don’t want to do anything but watch these two pick strawberries in the front yard. I haven't been writing like…
Apr
17
Easter Morning 2022

Easter Morning 2022

🐇 Easter morning, 2022. This is my bunny, my little bear. How can someone change so much in under a year but always be the same? It’s been an…
Dec
31
What we gained.

What we gained.

🐣 2021, to me, will be always be marked by what we gained.…
Dec
05
Christmas, on repeat.

Christmas, on repeat.

❄️ Not sure anyone cares about my favorite Christmas song, except maybe my family because I keep it on repeat, and repeat “I love this song so much,” endlessly—but…
Nov
30
This is a gift for you.

This is a gift for you.

👩🏻‍🎨 It’s book release day for this one, and it is impossible to overstate how proud I am of her. “This is a Gift for You,” is the best…
Nov
12
One Year Ago

One Year Ago

🌲 This was us, just a year ago. I’ve been writing this post in my head for weeks now, never quite coming up with the right words. All the…
Nov
06
Trying Hard

Trying Hard

🍼 With a babe in arms, it is no wonder I've been thinking a lot about parenting and my place in the world. It's a surreal…
A bunch of essays, photos and thoughts by Pat Castaldo.